Not wanting to have people over
Once, when my husband and that i lived during a one-bedroom apartment, my relative called me with an unusual request. Her daughter and her daughter’s husband were getting to come to our town for every week and wanted to remain at our place. I refused. I didn’t know the relatives well —we were never close, and that i hate having people in my place.
I’m not the simplest host, and lots of people have told me that. My house is my fortress and only my closest loved ones can come and visit. I’m happy to ascertain them. Everyone else can see me at the other place without violating my privacy.